From Distorted to Healthy Love

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“Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.” 
~ Albert Einstein ~

Distorted energy - whether it be from the feminine or masculine side - uses subconscious and conscious means to “capture” love and hold onto it for dear life. 

Soul Mates.  Twin Flames.  Sexuality.  Money.  Blatant transparency and semi-honesty.  The promise of security/stability or nurturance.  A desire to not feel lonely or be alone.  Religious dogma.  The Kids.  A play of being weak and needing “saving”, rescuing, or a “strong man” to take care of you.  Needing to be a “savior”, rescuer or “strong man” in order to prove your “manliness”.

And dare I say it: even the psychic skills of intuition, clairvoyance, clairsentience, and all the other “clair+”.

In and of themselves - most of these things are just things and are not bad nor good.

When the INTENTION (your energy or currency) BEHIND anything is a backhanded way to “capture” love and make it “captivated” to you - then you’ve got issues. 

In other words, if you use these things to manipulate someone’s feelings so a strong energetic bond is created - you HAVE NOT created love.  You have created a Prison.

The handcuffs are the energetic bond created by the aforementioned tactics. Especially when they are dangled in many ways in front of the other party again and again.

Dare I say this happens EVEN in the #Lightworker, #spirituallyawakened communities. With people holding the term #twinflame or #soulmate over the other.  Not as a means of mutual curiosity and “wow, isn’t this amazing this connection we have!?”.  But as a means to imprison the other with, “But we are soul mates/twin flames who have found each other.  Doesn’t that mean we HAVE to be together?” (said in a tone not of wonderment, but laden with guilt…)

AND - this is NOT just happening in intimate relationships.  It happens in friendships, within communities and even within families.

In the end, all of these tactics are Distorted energy - i.e. your personal power source - that you are projecting out onto others.  Not because you are a bad person.  

Simply because you have been trained by society, community and parents.  Because that is how they were trained.  

For most of us, until we hear a message like this - this is completely unconscious.

At the end of the day, your power is laying outside of you - plugged into the Other.

When you are able to unplug yourself from the Other, reel in your power cord and plug it back into you - then you will find the Power to give the Other Freedom.  Freedom to Choose you freely.  

Wouldn’t you rather have that?  To know that the Other chooses you of their own free accord?

At the end of the day, wouldn’t you love to hear someone say:

“Thank you for giving me my freedom.  And I STILL choose you.”

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"The GOAL here is to remain COMPLETELY unmoved by your circumstances. DO NOT deviate from your frequency until the Universe meets your demand for change. Remain completely unmoved by your conviction until you see your thoughts and feelings materialize.”

~ Liz Henderson www.TheTwinFlameUnion.com